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I WILL NEVER APOLOGIZE...

Hello, how was your weekend? It is a few hours to the end of the year, so, let me start by saying Happy New Year in advance. Thank you for your continuous and unwavering patronage in 2017. To my readers, followers, subscribers and to everyone who showed love to the success of this blog, I say a big thank you. Thank you very much and I hope to see you in the new year. 

New year resolutions have never being a thing of interest to me, but I want to make an exception this year and make one. I believe my new year resolution can be useful to everyone in one way or the other, that is why I decided to share with you. The act of apologizing when one does what is wrong or hurtful to another is a good thing. We should learn to apologize for wrongdoings, but also try not to make it a habit of doing what is wrong because it is not all wrongdoings that an apology can fix. Another reason to avoid wrongdoings is because apologizing doesn't always mean that the person offended will accept. So, as much as possible, let us learn to watch what we do and try not to hurt others. Please, let us learn to apologize truthfully and not arrogantly as if we were forced or doing the person we offended a favour. Most importantly, we need to learn the difference between apologizing for wrongdoings and apologizing for who we are. 

One of the problems I noticed throughout 2017 was that people justify their wrongdoings (therefore people don't apologize for doing wrong) but expect you to apologize for who you are. People no longer apologize for being wrong but for being themselves. An example of apologizing for who you are is when you apologize for being short, tall, dark, light skinned, busty, nerdy, geeky, intelligent, beautiful or ugly, amongst others. In most cases, the people that demand this apology are people who are insecure of who they are and jealous of who you are. They are people who are not content with what they have been blessed with and do not recognize the beauty within themselves. Unfortunately for them, they have the magical power to see the beauty in others, and due to their envious and destructive nature, they will want to make you uncomfortable with what you have been blessed with. To make matters worse, they make you believe that possessing what you were meant to have is wrong and demand an apology for this.
As we approach 2018, I have decided that my new year resolution is thus: I WILL NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR BEING ME. In this new year, if you have a problem with me that has nothing to do with a wrong I might have done, DO NOT APPROACH ME. I really don't have time for hateful and discontented people. If after this, you still decide to approach me, then I will be a BITCH to you:

B - Bastardize you (i.e. I will reduce you from your high and mighty state to nothing) 
I - Irritate you (i.e. I will intentionally induce displeasure into your life)
T - Tear a strip off you (i.e. I will scold and make you feel stupid with your act)
C - Cut you off (I will break off all form of contact between us) 
H - Happily live my life because you no longer exist to me. 

Once again, I wish you a Happy New Year in advance...

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